Did you know that the term “pen pal” was actually preceded by the phrase “pen friend” which was used back in the early 1900’s? With the advent of digital communication which is quick and easy, handwritten letters have become increasingly scarce, which is truly unfortunate! Whether you call is pen friends or penpalling, communication through “snail mail” provide benefits and creative opportunities that online communication just can’t match. Penpalling is an excellent opportunity for every child to learn to express themselves through writing, connect with others from around the world, and practice composition skills in a non-threatening way.
A Safe Hobby
Penpalling is both a fun and educational experience for all ages, though when it comes to children, it’s natural to be extra careful when selecting a friend with whom they can exchange letters. This is where the digital aspect of our modern world comes into play. Many organizations recognize the benefits of letter-writing and the importance of safety, and have created dedicated websites specifically geared towards creating a safe space for children, as well as to help parents navigate the process. Technology also offers conveniences that simplify snail mail; for instance, learning to print stamps online is remarkably easy. You can even schedule letter or package pickups at your convenience in some instances.
A Creative Way to Make Connections
Writing isn’t the only form of communication and sharing that penpals can take advantage of. Creating drawings, paintings, and other visual forms of art to share is also a fun way for your child to express themselves and communicate, particularly if they are younger and still mastering the written word (which, of course, penpalling will encouraget). Unveiling a work of art to someone is always exciting for young ones, even more so when they get a thoughtful and detailed response in return. Children that aren’t quite up to writing full sentences can enlist your help by having you write what they would like to say, along with a drawing and signing their name- a personal touch.
A Life-Long Treasure
Along with a passion for writing and sharing with others, penpalling can also create something much more: a lifelong friendship. Many people that had a long term pen friend as a child continued their friendship via letter writing throughout adolescence and into adulthood. These friends are able to look back at the years of their correspondence and see their connection develop, which is a very special experience.
The written word offers so many advantages and opportunities. It’s how we share, communicate information, and keep track of our history. Penpalling is a great way to insure that your child's life includes communication that isn't instant or composed of non-sentances, but rather thought out compositions that can truly be a form of expression. Go for it!
